The Five Ways To Improve Relationships
There are five things you can do right away to change the way you behave in relationships.
Stop trying to read minds
Most relationship problems and associated social anxieties start with bad communication, which in turn leads to attempted mind reading. Mind reading occurs when two people assume that they know what the other is thinking when they don’t.
Stop inventing problems that don’t exist
By inventing problems in your mind and then believing them is the path to self-sabotage. When you invent problems in your relationships, your relationships ultimately suffer. Learning how to communicate effectively with NLP can open new ways of relating and understanding others needs.
Stop judging current relationships based on past ones
Think about those times when you passed an unfair judgment a person only because they reminded you of someone from your past who treated you badly. If you carry judgements from failed relationships into your present relationships, you will generate the same result as before.
Stop looking for perfect relationships
You will end up spending your entire life hopelessly seeking the right lover and the right friends if you expect them to be perfect. The trick is to find the imperfect people that balance your own imperfections. This all starts with building rapport and open communications.
Stop focusing on the negatives
There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. Even if it seems perfect, it won’t always be. Imperfection is real and beautiful. The level happiness between two people grows in direct proportion to their acceptance, and in inverse proportion to their intolerance, judgements and expectations. Acceptance is a function of understanding and the better we are able to understand the better our relationships become.
Start finding ways to improve your relationships by a better understanding of others, more acceptance of yourself and developing the tools and capability to genuinely be authentic and create stable resilient relationships.
When you add NLP skills and knowledge to your life things begin to change and the way you feel about yourself and those significant others receives a positive boost.
Talk to us about how NLP and Coaching can enhance your life and relationships.
